The Many Roles of a Mama

Mothers Day

When I was a little girl, I loved playing mommy to my baby dolls. I wanted to be a mama when I grew up.

Now, I’m a mama.

Reading

When I started school, one of my favorite things to do was ‘play school’. I wanted to be a teacher when I grew up.

Now, I am a teacher to my boys.

Nourishing Traditions

When I was in middle school, there was a push to start thinking about future careers. My career of choice as a 7th grader — a nutritionist.

Now, I am our family nutritionist.


Starting Seeds
In high school, I was involved in FFA and my dream was to become an agriculture teacher.

Now, I teach my boys about agriculture.

Intentionally Simple

In college, I obtained a BS in Agricultural Communications and dreamed of becoming a magazine writer.

Now, I am a blog writer.

I am an educated woman who stays home with my children and invests my time and talents into my family.

In the eyes of many, I’m wasting my education but the reality is I’m using my education.

And, as far as my dreams go, everything I ever dreamed of being, I am now.

April at Our Home

Clean Master

To me, the month of April marks the beginning of spring. The weather was still a bit chilly here in North Georgia but I started my spring cleaning on April 1, going through the house room by room deep cleaning, decluttering and making the rooms look nice. It took me a week to get to every room but I still have our hall closets to tackle.

I cleaned almost all of the windows in our house but unfortunately cleaned them before the pollen descended on our area so I now have to wipe out the window sills again!

Nigerian Dwarf Goat

On April 3, we acquired two Nigerian Dwarf Goats, Daisy and Blue (Daisy is pictured). Our boys love the goats and they get along wonderfully with our chickens.

However, we may be selling our goats since we had a complaint against our animals and have had to move them all off of our property. Thankfully, they are on the adjoining property but the fencing isn’t as ideal for the goats as our backyard was.

The 3 weeks of having goats in our backyard was fun though, they’ve very productive pets, eating grass and other brush!

Cleaning Out Clothes

As part of spring cleaning week, I tackled the boys clothes, swapping out winter clothes for spring/summer clothes. I was a bit hesitant to even do the swap because the weather has been so chilly but I kept out jeans that still fit and light jackets so they’ve had clothes to wear on cooler days.

Our boys have minimal wardrobes so this task is fairly simple. My process for swapping out their clothes involves pulling everything out, then going through deciding what to keep, what to pass on and if any of their winter clothes could be revived and worn in warmer weather.

I ended up with a small stack of things that might fit Paxton in the fall, a large stack of things to hand down to Weston, a few favorites to tuck away for a possible future baby and a stack of things to pass on. Small wardrobes makes swapping out, organizing and purging clothes easy!

Happy Birthday Paxton

My Paxton turned 3 mid-April! We celebrate birthdays minimally so we spent birthday week just doing fun little things celebrating him, like letting him stay up after bedtime, eating birthday cake and ice cream and going to Chick-fil-A. And, this mama spent a few days reflecting. The birthdays of my boys cause me to just reflect on the miracle of their lives, their births and the precious years we’ve spent with them so far!

Birthday Sandbox

We typically don’t purchase gifts for our children on their birthdays, opting for gifts of experience. Instead of going somewhere (like an aquarium or on a train ride), we built a sandbox. It’s an outdoor gift, so no extra clutter was brought into our home and it will provide hours of entertainment this summer and in the years to come!

Spring:Summer Meal Plan

My biggest accomplishment for the month was finally drafting a spring/summer menu plan! Basically, the plan is to repeat the same meals every two weeks for simplicity with a free day thrown in on Thursdays for trying new recipes and eating leftovers. (It may sound boring, but think about it, do you even remember what you ate just a week ago?)

I followed a meal plan very similar to this last summer but with some of our dietary changes, I created a new one from scratch. It still needs a bit of fine tuning and some details written down to follow (like when to soak grain, lay out meat) for ease of use but it’s already making meal time less stressful because there is a plan in place!

Those are just a few highlights for the month of April. We also had a trip to the local park, lots and lots of playing outside, time spent in the garden and a visit from grandparents for Paxton’s birthday. We’re looking forward to the fun (and hopefully warmer weather) that May should bring!

 

Our Lifestyle Crossroads

Backyard Farming

Throughout 2013, we have been making lifestyle changes.

In January, I had a week of sinus issues which brought me back to reading Nourishing Traditions and educating myself more on the Weston A Price Foundation approach to food. I was tired of being sick and knew that healthier eating habits leads to healthier bodies. (I want to note that we’ve not been sick since and the abundant Georgia pollen this year didn’t effect a single one of us either!)

We started making dietary changes, supporting local farmers and decided to start raising our own chickens in an attempt to have control over our food supply. In early April, we purchased two Nigerian dwarf goats (a dairy breed) to forage in our yard with plans to milk in the future.

This small scale backyard micro-farming as we called it, was allowing us to live our dream of farming on a small scale. John David and I both grew up on farms and have degrees in agriculture so the passion for agriculture is in our blood!

We were settling into a routine with all of our animals, feeling good about starting to become self sufficient and making plans for uses of goats milk (I was dreaming of making soaps).

Last Wednesday, I came home from a morning in town to find a notice on our door. It stated that there had been an anonymous complaint about our property and that we had one week to remove all animals from our property.

I was full of emotions, sad because I’ve grown a bit attached to our animals and upset that someone would call and make a complaint about our property without complaining first to us.

In our county, you are only permitted to have animals if you have at least two acres. Then you can have four animals per two acres. We only have one acre, therefore we aren’t legally allowed to have any animals other than cats or dogs. If you have more than 5 acres, you can have an unlimited number of farm animals provided you are selling animal products (like eggs).

The fact is, we were in violation of the law. We fully acknowledge that although we weren’t aware we were breaking the law. Last year, when we purchased our first four hens, we looked up the ordinances and could find nothing about animal restrictions in the county. The lack of ease in finding out regulations coupled with the fact that we lived in the county on an acre, we thought everything we were doing was completely within the law. (Now we know to call the county and ask lots of questions before doing anything!)

After the sadness, shock and frustration, we started making plans for removing our animals from our property.

We had already talked to our neighbors who own 6.5 acres of land adjoining our lot about using their field for our agricultural endeavors so we drew up an official agreement to lease their 6.5 acres. We were already planning on selling eggs but now we are definitely going to be selling eggs to make our little operation legal.

The situation has been a bit frustrating because we loved having our animals in our backyard and all of our animals got along wonderfully (the goats even slept in the chicken house at night!) We’re also saddened because there is not an easy way to care for our goats now so we’re planning to sell them.

For me, the biggest frustration is the feeling of a lack of freedom. Our little one acre ‘farm’ was a sustainable little operation but it’s illegal. It wasn’t too much to manage and gave us a bit of self sufficiency.

My emotions have been all over during this past week. Part of me wants to sell our home, move into town, just have a little garden and support our local farmers in their endeavors. Another part of me wants to purchase our own 5 acres and really make a go of small scale agriculture but the thought of that is overwhelming with 2 small children and a husband who works full time. I really like our house but things just feel different now without our chickens in the backyard, the fact that we have to cross a fence to get to our animals and the fact that someone has an issue with our lifestyle choices.

In many ways, I feel like we’re at this lifestyle crossroads. The questions ‘should we scale back’ or ‘should we scale up’ have been in my mind constantly.

While I have no idea how this story will play out, I just wanted to share what’s going on in our life, writing is helping me process everything.

 

 

 

Reviving Kids Clothes

I purged and packed away the boys winter clothes and pulled out their spring clothes a few weeks ago.

My 3-year-old’s bin of spring clothes was pretty sparse.

I’ve stopped buying clothes ahead of time since my guessing on sizes has been off in the past. My thoughts are even if I just spend a few dollars on clothing that is never worn, I’m still wasting money!

When friends occassionally give us hand-me-downs, I’ll pick out the things we love and put them in his bin of next size up clothes so we have a few things tucked away for him to grow into.

His bin of spring clothes included 2 pair of hand-me-down shorts, a pair of swimming shorts my mom purchased, his shorts from last summer (which all still fit!) and one button up shirt. There were no t-shirts at all. At this point, most people would think it’s time to go shopping because he needs shirts and honestly, that’s what I thought at first too.

A look through the drawer of clothes he’s currently wearing resulted in more than enough shirts for this spring and hopefully summer (unless he hits a growth spurt). Most of his 24 month and 2T shirts from last summer still fit and a few things just needed a little reviving.

Long Sleeve Shirt

He had a couple shirts from this winter that were layered long sleeve t-shirts. They still fit and were cute shirts that he really likes to wear.

Stained Arms

The guitar shirt had cream colored sleeves which were stained from months of being worn by a 2-year-old. (I’ve decided to stop purchasing white/cream colored shirts for my boys, dark colors hide stains so much better!)Short Sleeve Shirt

After a few minutes of cutting the long sleeve arms out of the shirts, he had two ‘new’ t-shirts for this spring that he loves! Plus, we saved money. 

Before heading out to purchase more clothes for your kids, be sure to look at their clothes to see if there are ways you can revive what they have!

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